My Goals For 2015

The difference between dreams and goals is the difference between wannabes and achievers. To that end I have decided to write out my 2015 goals before we move too far into the new year. I was planning to write my sigma manifesto series as outlined in my first post. This would tie in nicely as the last post in that series will detail how I think a sigma male should structure his life to best adapt to the modern world. My 2015 goals stem from that; they are waypoints that will help me get there. Since I have been busy working on my first two girls I haven’t had a chance to write that series yet, so tough. Here are my goals instead.


  1. Complete the 30 Days of Discipline Program
  2. Get a new job that both broadens my skill set and earns me £60k ($90k) a year
  3. Bang an 8
  4. Get 6 new daygame lays
  5. Save £10k ($15k)
  6. Learn to scuba dive

Let me explain the motivations behind my goals.

1. Complete the 30 Days of Discipline Program

One of the biggest benefits I got from learning game was actually developing a strong ability to ruthlessly introspect and discover my flaws (that and all the lovely, lovely vagina). This is very useful, and I think is something that the great unwashed lack. I’ve uncovered two main flaws. An introversion so strong that it makes me almost hate most social situations, and a lack of self discipline. Although both flaws hold me back in a myriad of ways, I feel discipline is the one I need to attack the most.

The dictionary defines discipline as follows:

the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behaviour, using punishment to correct disobedience

Of course I’m talking about self discipline, rather than discipline imposed by others. I woud define self discipline as your ability to force yourself to do things that you don’t like doing in the short term, because you believe that there are long term benefits associated with doing these things. In other words it’s being willing to crawl through the shit to get to the gold.

I have come to believe that discipline is the cornerstone of achievement. Learning game required discipline. I had to force myself to do something I didn’t like (going out and cold approaching), in order to be able to get what I wanted in the future (pussy). I never thought I would get to the point where I was fucking new women so regularly, and often better than average looking ones too (well, sometimes). Although I had to make many changes to myself to achieve this, all these changes were powered by my self discipline in the pursuit of game. It was my discipline that made me keep going and trying new things till the legs started spreading. This got me thinking. If I never thought I’d be good at bedding women and discipline allowed me to achieve this to a standard well beyond that of the average man, what else that I thought would be impossible to me could I achieve with discipline? Successfully run my own business? Live a lifestyle vastly different to The Standard Western Male Life Path? Quite possibly.

I’m not going to go all Disney made for TV movie on you now and claim you can achieve anything. That would be bullshit. We have hard wired genetic limits on our achievements. As a 5″9′ 32 year old male, no matter how much discipline I put into achieving the goal of playing for the NBA, it isn’t going to happen. Having said that I believe that most people only reach a fraction of their genetic potential, mainly due to lack of discipline (and partly also due to not being able to see the world as it truly is).

I was disciplined in game because I am so highly motivated by pussy. I will not be so highly motivated in other areas. Even with game I could have pushed myself much harder (I should probably have opened 3 times the number of sets I have since I got into game). This means building up my discipline is very important. It’s a prerequisite to my future success.

To this end I have decided my starting point will be to follow Victor Pride’s 30 Days of Discipline program throughout January. Doing so won’t solve all of my discipline problems, but it will be a start.

2. Get a new job that both broadens my skill set and earns me £60k ($90k) a year

This is required for two reasons. First it will help me achieve my money saving goal. Secondly the broadening of my skills will help me when I become a contractor in the future (an important part of my long term plan). Since I’m being quite picky about the role and am asking for more money for a job that requires some skills that I haven’t quite mastered yet, this may take a while. I’m giving myself till the end of March to get this done.

3. Bang an 8

I’m almost at the point where I’d rather have a wank than fuck a girl worse than a 7. Even fucking 7s is leaning towards meh for me most of the time. Add to this that my sex drive seems to have plummeted in the past 2 months and this means I’m really only interested in quality (in terms of looks) when it comes to laying girls. I’ve done the quantity thing and am bored with it.

This is going to be a hard one. My looks alone cannot score me an 8, to my game has to massively improve to bridge the value gap. It will be a lot of work with a very delayed payoff. I can’t see even hitting double figure lays this year. A while back that would bother me, but I’ve fucked almost enough girls for my ego to not be too concerned with racking up the numbers anymore.

There’s zero chance this will happen with online game, it will have to be cold approach. Hundreds of sets at least. Daygame is a man’s best bet to punch above his weight in terms of looks, so I’ll focus on that. Which brings me nicely onto my next goal…

4. Get six new daygame lays

This doesn’t sound like much, but it’ll be a struggle. I got my first daygame lay last year, but that was around October. Since then I haven’t been practising at all (lack of discipline means I won’t brave London’s Arctic winter to do so…) and so when I get back on the horse I will likely have lost all the skills I learned last year, and my AA will be back. Tough but will give me some great opportunities.

5. Save £10k ($15k)

Required as a safety net before I go contract, and also to help condition me to a more minimalist lifestyle that will help me to achieve future goals. If I get a new job with the salary I want then this goal will be all about discipline, as I’ll be earning way more than I need to live.

6. Learn to scuba dive

I feel like my life has become all about chasing women and (procrastinating at) learning new job skills. This makes me very one dimensional. When I meet new people or go on dates with girls and talk about my life I feel this strongly. I just don’t do much except get laid. To this end I am including something fun and adventurous this year.

There we have it folks. I will of course keep you informed of my progress.


Introduction to the Sigma Male Lifestyle

Welcome to my new blog.

I am an early 30s male currently living in London. I was first introduced to the manosphere and red pill thinking around 5 years ago. This stemmed from the fact that at that time I suffered from involuntary celibacy. Unlike many who would whine about such a situation I decided to do something about it. This lead me to discover the online PUA community, and with it the manosphere.

Over the next 5 years I put the knowledge I gained online via the PUA community into practice as I applied the techniques I had learned on hundreds of girls. Theory is great, but until theory can be put into practice and shown to actually work, it is meaningless. Much of the red pill knowledge I had gained online passed this litmus test.

My success with women skyrocketed. In those 5 years I slept with more women than I ever though possible. In the first half of 2014 I slept with more women than I’d slept with in my entire life before learning about PUA (7).

Many people have spoken out against PUA tactics saying they are a lie and don’t work. These people are trying to reinforce the standard blue pill social narrative. Although some of the tactics aren’t as effective as their proponents make out, and outer game techniques won’t paper over the cracks for someone who is a fundamentally unattractive person, on the whole my experience has proven them to work. With each success I moved further and further away from mainstream society and the obviously incorrect social narrative it presented to me regarding male female interaction.

This all got me thinking. Male female relationships are the cornerstone of adult life. You meet a girl. Get married. Have kids. Buy a house. That’s then your life. Your marriage is the foundation of that life. if male female relationships aren’t what people in the mainstream thought they were (true love ever after), then your whole life would be built on a shaky foundation. This struck me as very dangerous.

The more I went down this path of independent thought, the more I saw a disconnect between the realities of modern life and what I was raised to believe life should be like. It gradually dawned on me that the standard western male life path was potentially ruinous for a man. The standard western male life path is as follows:

  1. Go to school
  2. Go to University
  3. Get a professional job, and pay into your state and private pension
  4. Meet a girl
  5. Marry girl
  6. Buy house with girl. The bigger the better. Also buy all of the standard accessories: cars, three piece suite with matching curtains and cushions, marble topped kitchen, patio furniture etc.
  7. Have a couple of kids
  8. Send kids to school and university
  9. Retire at 65 and be happy. Be more than comfortable thanks to those state and private pensions you’ve spent your entire life paying into. Maybe move somewhere hot, like spain.
  10. Die

Over a series of forthcoming posts I will present the forces that make this standard life path so dangerous to the modern man. I will define what I think the Sigma male is, and lay out what I believe is a template for a better life path for such a man. This is the life path that I will endeavour to follow over the coming years. The posts will be as follows:

  1. Introduction
  2. What is a Sigma Male?
  3. The Rise of Feminism, Equalism & Socialism
  4. The State of Gender Relations in The Modern Western World
  5. Economics
  6. Taking The Red Pill
  7. The Sigma Male life path

Throughout this series I present myself as neither expert nor teacher. I will simply convey what I have observed about the world, what I have learned from this, and how I intend on using this knowledge to make the best possible life choices. What you do with this information is up to you.

This blog will not be commercial in anyway.